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Look,
if you want to torture me, spank me, lick me, do it. But if this poetry
shit continues just shoot me now please. We tend to think of the erotic as an easy, tantalizing
sexual arousal. I speak of the erotic as the deepest life force, a force
which moves us toward living in a fundamental way.
"Be careful Anais, abnormal pleasures kill the
taste for normal ones."
Sometimes I feel, like I've been tied to the whippin'
post.
There was no reality to pain when it left one, though
while it held one fast all other realities faded.
Sometimes, being a bitch is all a woman has.
Submission without domination is when you keep doing
what he wants even after he keeps insisting he doesn't want it.
Domination without submission is when he keeps telling you to do
something and you keep telling him to fuck off.
Ordinary life does not interest me. I seek only the
high moments. I am in accord with the surrealists, searching for the
marvelous.
I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the
leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man
lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his
life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I
don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but
as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don't mind
being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling all that I am capable
of doing but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of
a male at his time, his bidding.
Feelings that originate in the human genitalia are
among the most powerful forces on earth. They have a complex
relationship with the feelings that stem from the human heart; at
various times in competition or in harmony... One of the supreme goals
of spiritual work is to harness the sexual urges in service to the
heart's wisdom.
Thou art to me a delicious torment.
Sexuality is a sacrament.
To be sensual, I think, is to respect and rejoice in
the force of life, of life itself and so to be present in all that one
does, from the effort of loving to the breaking of bread.
A riding crop and a blindfold doesn't make it BDSM.
There is a big difference between being kinky and being in the scene.
It's not a sexual thing to me, it's a very spiritual thing.
Ultimately, the purpose of a flogging is to inflict
pleasure.
BSDM is an erotic art which does not require
conventional sex acts to explore and practice. That's my philosophical
story, and I'm stickin' to it.
i can't get all involved in what is 'protocol' and
what is not... good grief, relationships are hard enough... i frankly
just prefer to please my partner and follow his lead, regardless of what
it is... isn't that what D/s is, after all?
Subspace is my perfect paradise vacation from
busy-mind... blessed be to the Dominant who can stamp my ticket there.
When I was brand new, I felt it important to belong to
a group. I was elated to find others like me, and to find out I wasn't
"weird," after all. But now, the politics have changed that.
Since I have always had a distaste for politics, I now align myself with
INDIVIDUALS.
For me, the goal of any of the BDSM activities is to
break barriers and boundaries, sending me into a more primal, raw
connection...to erase the civilized conventions and attain that
connection, space, where there is no skin, no outer layers, but simply
raw primal emotion.
Stars hid your fires. Let not light see my black and
deep desires.
"Intimacy is based on shared
vulnerability...nothing deepens intimacy like the experiences that we
share when we feel flayed, with our skins off, scared and vulnerable,
and our partner is there with us, willing to share in the scary
stuff"
The slave escapes her bonds to find a stronger set of
chains.
What is most beautiful in virile men is something
feminine; what is most beautiful in feminine women is something
masculine.
I’ve always been into it in fantasy going way back,
and in practice taking what I could, playing around the edges of vanilla
relationships. What I’ve come to realize about myself is that I cannot
be happy without a strong D/s, s/m element in my lover. I feed to deeply
with it for me to try to patch together a relationship, no matter how
loving, without having it. So, realizing that I got involved. Started on
a path to become the kind of man who can be trusted to Top a woman
cleanly and with passion, and tried to find partners for whom my roles,
fantasies, my dominant and sadistic nature is not an undesirable or
merely tolerated inconvenience, but an asset, something prized and
sought.
The seduction emanating from a person of uncertain or
dissimulated sex is powerful.
For even more cool
BDSM Quotes visit the Reading Room of the
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