Sadie's  Columns: the Art of BDSM

 

 

 

 

 

In Relationship

 

When Relationships End

"Aren't you over him yet, Sadie?" - Healing the Heart on the Slow Track

Help for Recovering from the Loss of a Partner – for those of you who have extra sensitive hearts

Nothing Like Being Rejected to Make a Girl Ruminate on Love and Sex

 

Play Parties
I've Been Invited To A BDSM Play Party! Should I Go?
The Continuum of BDSM Play - Play Parties and That Whole Dilemma

My Body is a Temple and All That on Exhibitionism in the Scene

 

Auto Erotica: Exploring BDSM without a Partner
Part 1: self-inflicted BDSM
Part 2: Exploring Subspace through Alternative Mind Places
Part 3: Submitting and Surrender to Self
Part 4: Self Reflection and Personal Growth During the in-between Period

 

Cyber Relationships – Commentary from an Ex Real-Time Elitist
Exploring the Continuum of Real Time and Cyber Relationships
Common Aspects & Making the Best of the Online Experience
Challenges of the Cyber Experience

 

Single/Dating

Nothing Like Being Rejected to Make a Girl Ruminate on Love and Sex
The Single Submissive's Lament
Novice on the Precipice
Can a Kinky Girl Date A Straight Guy? The Story of my Vacation in Vanillaland
Going on a Dating Sabbatical, and the One who Slipped in Under the Wire
Sadie's Excellent Vanilla Dating Adventure
 

Adultery and Me

Adultery, Betrayal, and How I Rationalized My Way Out Of Things
Adultery and the Vanilla Spouse

 

2009 Move to Boston

Bound for Boston

A Literal Move to Boston and a Figurative Move to Dating Again

Why Consider another Relationship when Most of them were a Flop?