Sadie's  Columns: the Art of BDSM

 

 

 

 

 

Who Are We?

 

Submission

I'm a Better Slave than You, Neener Neener!

For Submissives Only:
How to Signify That You’re a Submissive when you Look Like a Dominant!

Locked in a Chastity Belt while my Dominant is out Fighting the Hun

An Old Fashioned Girl in a Less Than Old Fashioned Lifestyle

Sadie's Prime Directives for Snagging the Domme (or Dom) of your Dreams

Expressing the Submissive Within… when you are a Pretty Dominant Gal Yourself

My Submissive Nature

Submission on Thanksgiving Night

Sensuous Sadie Gets Slapped

The Submissive in Charge

Exploring the Phenomenon of Strong Female Submissives

Sensuous Sadie and the Dilemma of Submissives Training their Doms

Just Call me a Bedroom Submissive

The Frugal Submissive (for Dominants too)

Total Surrender? In a Pig's Eye!

The Flavors of my Submission

Sensuous Sadie Considers A 24/7 - Part I

Sensuous Sadie Considers A 24/7 - Part II

Pushing the Boundaries of Intimacy 

 

Switching

The Lure of Androgyny

Sensuous Sadie, Girl Wrestler

The Fuzzy Area between Domspace and Subspace

Vicarious Submission

Switches Rule... and Hurt Too! (with tart commentary from readers)

Dominance

A Punishment for that Sweet Innocent Girl? All about how to punish your Submissive: appropriately, effectively, and absolutely

All About “Topping from the Bottom” and why I’m still doing it even though Dominants have been telling me not to for years

How to Spot a Dominant at Ten Paces

He Looks like a Dom and Quacks like a Dom, but is he really a Dom?  - Thoughts on the difference between appearing to be in control, and actually being in control

Doms Behaving Badly

Sensuous Sadie and the Catch-22 Of Looking Domme

A Dominant’s Ethics and Some Messy Emotional Areas of the Human Psyche

Nature of Sadism and the Sadism of My Nature

Creating an Atmosphere for BDSM Play

Negotiating the Emotional Landscape of D/s Play